Gift & Contribution

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For weddings, the general rule is to contribute enough to "cover your plate," typically estimated at $75 - $125 per person depending on the venue.

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📅 Gift Etiquette Guide (2026)

Weddings (Cash/Check)

For weddings, cash gifts are common, especially if the couple already lives together. The primary goal is usually to cover the cost of your meal (the plate cost) and contribute to their future. Amounts are typically rounded to the nearest $50 or $100.

Funerals (Contribution)

Instead of direct cash contributions, it's more common to send flowers, a mass card (if applicable), or donate to a charity specified by the family (in lieu of flowers). If cash is given, a small amount ($20-$50) is usually sufficient unless you are immediate family.

Tip: Always check if the couple has a gift registry. If they do, purchasing a gift from the registry often takes precedence over cash. If cash is requested, always send a check or cash in a card.
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